This experience, reading through this book, has been beneficial.
Right off the hop, we have the first quote and there’s no disputing the truth of it.
Page 71: Forgiveness holds the key to freedom, to healing, to wholeness.
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Page 75: – Forgiveness does not mean you forget what happened.
Page 76: – Forgiveness does not release the offender from consequences.
Page 77: – Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation.
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Page 79: Forgiveness is a decision. Choose to forgive.
Practical steps to allow forgiveness to happen.
Open your heart. Extend compassion. But most importantly…
Release the person from the prison you put them in inside your heart.
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The final quote is a useful admonition. Bottom of Page 79
Do not run away from forgiveness. Run to forgiveness. It is a great friend. If you choose to forgive, your heart will heal.
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I’ve noticed several common qualities in those of us struggling to forgive.
We build protective walls. Massive protective walls.
We are imprisoned with our words. (I will never, I can’t…)
We imprison our offenders in our hearts. As long as they dwell locked up inside of us we can never forgive.
Letting them out of our prison doesn’t do anything to free them but it surely does something to free us.
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Enjoy the book.
Grasp and enjoy freedom.